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A transformational wedding story

I want to tell you about something that happened at my wedding 11 days ago.

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But before I tell you what happened, first, a question —

Is there somewhere in your life where you are stuck in the same pattern around your boundaries, and you keep repeating the same cycle?

It could be you SAY you’re going to set a boundary, and you even block off your calendar to take an actual lunch break. And, surprisingly, it works for one day. But then the next day, it goes back to back-to-back meetings with no breaks in sight.

Or, it could go like this – you THINK constantly about setting boundaries, and you never actually go into ACTION, so you’re left feeling like a failure no matter how many really awesome boundaries you dream about putting into place.

So back to my wedding story. I got married on Earth Day. It was without a doubt one of the funnest, most emotional, and moving days I have ever experienced.

Part of the reason is I, wisely, invited my teacher Susanne Conrad to give a toast.

And then she used her toast to point out my MY transformation.

When I met Michael, I loathed Halloween.

I don’t actively dislike many things, but Halloween tops that list. I don’t like coming up with a costume; I am totally afraid of scary movies; don’t ever mention haunted houses to me. Shudder.

But then I met Michael. Who LOVES Halloween with a passion.

Some long-time readers may recall I threw a Halloween party last fall. Which is not something this Halloween-hater EVER thought would happen. 

And I even had FUN dressing up.

And while the party was great, the real magic was what I learned — and the transformation Michael inspired and that Susanne saw in me.

No matter what has happened before in your life, you are never stuck.

You are never stuck in one way of thinking, doing, or being.

You are never stuck in the boundaries you currently have (or, let’s be honest, the ones you don’t have.)

You are not destined to be terrible at setting boundaries.

You are not doomed to be a people-pleaser who over-gives to everyone else at your own expense.

You, too, can change, and in ways you can’t even fathom.

Which is why I am leading Transform Your Relationship With Work Boundaries (without the guilt or shame.)

In this series, you’ll see exactly how to make the switch.

You’ll learn exactly what it takes to completely transform your boundaries, and to even see them as fun and full of ease.

And, how it can be a whole lot easier than you think.

In the series, you’ll learn how to step fully into your own power around boundaries, so you can have space and time in your calendar to do the things you love.

All you have to do is click below to grab a seat for this FREE series.

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