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The secret to overcoming imposter syndrome

26/04/2023

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Here’s what really matters for getting promoted

Here’s what really matters for getting promoted in the next 60 days — being coachable.

The heart of getting promoted is breaking the negative cultural habit of holding back who you really are, aka being open to growth and change and authentic self-expression.

But it’s possible you’ve been suppressing it for so long, you’re not even sure how to begin, and now it feels scary and terrifying to consider what that would look like.

But here’s how it started especially as the daughter of immigrants.
When you were a kid, your brain was programmed to believe that safety came by doing what made other people happy starting with your parents, who probably sacrificed a huge amount so you could have opportunity.

And to repay them, you started people pleasing, or working extra hard and doing things as perfect as possible.

By the time you get to midlife, you’ve been pretending to be someone you’re not for so long, you’re not even sure how to begin.

The bottom line is you have come to believe that working super hard and doing it perfectly is how you’ll get promoted, and you’re now also suppressing the emotions you’re feeling you have about not being able to be your full self.

And on top of that, work has become its own addiction, a way of compensating for the pent-up emotions.

So when the idea of, “I don’t know how to do that” comes up, you simply have to learn how to process the emotions that come up so you aren’t afraid to feel, and that will actually help you learn and adapt.

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